More than chemistry, emotional clarity
We Match What Matters
Dating isn’t just about swiping. It’s about understanding who you are, how you love, and what actually works for you. We are removing the guess work in finding a match. We match you with people who are emotionally compatible with you hence building a deeper and stronger connection.
What patterns have shaped your heart?
The better we understand you, the better your matches. That’s why we start by asking the right questions—about what matters most. The questions are based on:
Personality Type
Who are you at your core? The unique combination of traits, behaviors, and emotional patterns that define how you think, feel, and relate to the world. It’s what makes you you — your rhythm, your reactions, your vibe. Your personality is shaped by a mix of biology(Genetics) and life experience(upbringing, culture and environment): We use the Big Five Personality Dimensions to understand your natural tendencies
Attachment Style
how you naturally respond to closeness, conflict, and emotional needs in relationships. It’s like your relationship "autopilot"—formed early in life, but not fixed forever. Attachment style begins in childhood, based on how your caregivers responded to your emotional needs
Love Language
is the way you naturally express and receive love. It’s how you feel most seen, valued, and emotionally connected in relationships. Your love language often develops through your childhood experiences, family dynamics, and past relationships. Your love language can shift—especially as you evolve emotionally or move through different stages of life or relationships
SELF AWARENESS
Ever wondered why you are drawn to certain people?
Ever wondered why some patterns keep repeating themselves?
During onboarding, we’ll guide you through a few key questions to help shape your emotional profile. Once you're done, we organize your answers to give you a clearer picture of who you are emotionally.
Kipenzi helps you figure out what love means to you before you find your person
Testimonials
What our app users have to say
I spend a lot of time at work and on the weekend i just want to unwind and relax, i don’t have a lot of time to go out on dates.
Victor Kamau
I was so scared of dating again, my last boyfriend really hurt me but on Kipenzi, it feels safer to talk to people because i can tell the redflags
Mercy Chebet
I used to watch so many tiktoks on how to be a high value woman but now the problem has become where to find the high value men? Kipenzi has helped me find them
Pauline Wairimu
I feel like women are very superficial especially on Instagram but on Kipenzi, i can know how compatible i am with the person.
Martin Omondi
I am have done the inner work including therapy but now finding someone who has done the same level of work was hard but at least i find compatible partners on Kipenzi
Joyce Nekesa
I spend a lot of time at work and on the weekend i just want to unwind and relax, i don’t have a lot of time to go out on dates.
Victor Kamau
I was so scared of dating again, my last boyfriend really hurt me but on Kipenzi, it feels safer to talk to people because i can tell the redflags
Mercy Chebet
I used to watch so many tiktoks on how to be a high value woman but now the problem has become where to find the high value men? Kipenzi has helped me find them
Pauline Wairimu
I feel like women are very superficial especially on Instagram but on Kipenzi, i can know how compatible i am with the person.
Martin Omondi
I am have done the inner work including therapy but now finding someone who has done the same level of work was hard but at least i find compatible partners on Kipenzi
Joyce Nekesa
I spend a lot of time at work and on the weekend i just want to unwind and relax, i don’t have a lot of time to go out on dates.
Victor Kamau
I was so scared of dating again, my last boyfriend really hurt me but on Kipenzi, it feels safer to talk to people because i can tell the redflags
Mercy Chebet
I used to watch so many tiktoks on how to be a high value woman but now the problem has become where to find the high value men? Kipenzi has helped me find them
Pauline Wairimu
I feel like women are very superficial especially on Instagram but on Kipenzi, i can know how compatible i am with the person.
Martin Omondi
I am have done the inner work including therapy but now finding someone who has done the same level of work was hard but at least i find compatible partners on Kipenzi
Joyce Nekesa
I spend a lot of time at work and on the weekend i just want to unwind and relax, i don’t have a lot of time to go out on dates.
Victor Kamau
I was so scared of dating again, my last boyfriend really hurt me but on Kipenzi, it feels safer to talk to people because i can tell the redflags
Mercy Chebet
I used to watch so many tiktoks on how to be a high value woman but now the problem has become where to find the high value men? Kipenzi has helped me find them
Pauline Wairimu
I feel like women are very superficial especially on Instagram but on Kipenzi, i can know how compatible i am with the person.
Martin Omondi
I am have done the inner work including therapy but now finding someone who has done the same level of work was hard but at least i find compatible partners on Kipenzi
Joyce Nekesa